There are some authors - very few - that make me want to buy all their works. Some convince me of their genius for a while, like Salman Rushdie with Midnight's Children, and then I read one of their more human books and I give up on completing the series. Some convince me only in one genre - Neil Stephenson is stupendously good when he does historical fiction, but I just can't get into his fantasy stuff. Then there are some that I keep going back to when I want a sure thing - like John Irving, but then doesn't everyone?
One of the few authors I haven't ever enjoyed less is Irvin D. Yalom. I got quite excited today, starting one of his books. It may well be finished tomorrow.
(These are the books I could find immediately - I think I have another one at least.)
Yalom is a psychotherapist and psychiatrist, who writes both fiction and non-fiction about his experiences with his clients. For someone like me, who went through psychotherapy for a few years, it is fascinating to read about the experiences of "the other side." When I was in therapy, my therapist often seemed like a closed book. I longed to know what was going on inside her mind and her soul, but she wouldn't give much away. Because Yalom writes from the perspective of the therapist, he gives at least a possible answer to my questions. Yalom shows how human therapists are, and how humanly they react to their clients. He also knows how to tell a story, obviously, and sticks to the point. (I hate a meandering novelist - long descriptions of the exact colour of the sky will make me scream and throw the book across the room.)
I discovered Yalom during one of my longer breaks from therapy, and completely fell in love with the first book I read. Then when I went back to see my therapist after a while, it turned out she had one of his handbooks, Existential Psychotherapy, on her bookshelf. I must have been staring at this name every week for a couple of years, so it was no coincidence that I picked up his book from the bargain shelf at the bookshop.
I adore the subjects Yalom decides to write about - psychology, obviously, but also philosophy and death. Another thing I love about him is that I recommended his work to An, our resident philosopher-psychologist, and she was bowled over, too. We are normally completely incompatible when it comes to books, so extra brownie points for him.
Anyway - I just thought I would share this, as a reading tip for anyone looking for a gripping summer read. It's a bonus if you've been in therapy, but I don't think it's necessary. He's easy to read, will satisfy a basic human desire to eavesdrop on other people's quirks, while at the same time making you think about life, death and all that comes with it. (Without getting difficult or heavy handed. He reads like a train, honestly.)
Tuesday, 13 July 2010
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So often I've looked at my counsellor and wondered just what on earth was going through her head whilst I self indulgently blabbed on. I often expected her to jump up and slap me one and tell me to grow up or get my act together. Of course thankfully she never has. Her unconditional acceptance of what I've told her has been a life saver for me.I'm heading to the library today, so I'll look him up.
ReplyDeleteYou read my mind -- I am looking for my next read and will check this out. thanks!
ReplyDeleteOh thank you - a recommendation that looks worth following up! I've run out of inspiration big time about what to read next, and this writing sounds lush!
ReplyDeleteI have never bothered to read before but miraculously managed 5 books in 10 days in Greece... I am hoping to keep it up and this looks like an excellent choice!!
ReplyDelete@Countess - I know what you mean. Sometimes you just want an opinion, right? But then again, if you're thinking that she should be telling you to grow up or get your act together, there's no need for her to actually tell you. Clever how that works, eh?
ReplyDelete@A Modern Mother - I hope you enjoy it!
@Pueblo girl - Oh, the pressure - what if you're all "meh" about it!
@Eternally Distracted - Ah yes, the holiday read. I hope it lasts for you. As good a way as any to get into reading.
Oh God! Will the list of Books To Be Read ever shrink (no pun intended)?
ReplyDeleteKnow what you mean about Salman Rushdie, though. My personal John Irving would probably be Iris Murdoch.
@dadwhowrites - Iris Murdoch. Must check her out. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteSounds interesting and different, I'll check it him out. Guess you were not a fan of Dickens then? He takes about 4 pages describing a hill.
ReplyDeleteOh that figures. I just searched for it in our library's database and they had ONE book by him...and it's gone missing. *sigh*
ReplyDeleteI'll have to order them!
My therapist rolls her eyes at him. But I read most of his stuff ages ago and loved it. Loves Executioner being the favorite. My therapist loaned this book to me and I loved it similarly: Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy and Its Dilemmas by Deborah Luepnitz. Great stories and wonderful writing. I think you'd like it.
ReplyDeleteThis post made me happy, plus I got to write "my therapist" twice. So, thanks!
@Bethany - Now I want to know WHY she rolls her eyes at him! Like really truly madly deeply.
ReplyDeleteI like that you read and loved his stuff too. That makes so much sense to me.
I will have to therefore try out the other one. My next order from Amazon will contain that book!
And - you're welcome.